Friday, April 17, 2009

Anxiety and Children - Separation and Social Issues

Separation anxiety and children are linked when they have difficulty leaving their parents to attend school or camp. They avoid staying at a friend's house, or being alone. Often, they will "cling" to parents and may have trouble getting to sleep. Separation anxiety may be accompanied by depression, sadness, withdrawal, or the fear that a family member might leave or die.

Social anxiety and children involve displays of excessive fear of social and personal performance situations. They are concerned that they may do something embarrassing or humiliating, or others will think badly of them. These children constantly feel as if they are "on stage", which can lead to crippling self-consciousness.

One of modern life blights is anxiety, and children, especially, suffer its consequences. Parents who note symptoms of severe anxiety in their child or teen can help by seeking help early. Early treatment may eliminate the issue quickly and help prevent future problems.

Anxiety in children can disappear as quickly as it came. Too many parents are too concerned with daily chores and work to take time off during the day and just have fun with the children. Families that play together, stay together. Taking your focus off the problem and enjoying time together will calm the situation, and the child. Playing can help you deal with your own anxiety and children are better off too.

Young children are not usually aware that they are worrying. They may not see their fear as excessive or may not be able to verbalize their feelings and thoughts. This is normal. Parents need to trust their instincts in deciding whether their child's anxiety is more severe than normal.

If you decide go the route of using medication, then always use remedies that are natural, benign and not dangerous. Be wary of anxiety and children getting pushed into heavy drugs.


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